Patricia Whithorne Lovesy Patefield PORTAGE -- Patricia Whithorne Lovesy Patefield, of Portage, died peacefully of natural causes on August 24, 2019 in Portage, Wisconsin. She was born on December 8, 1926 in Milwaukee, Wisconsin to Carla Desebrok Lovesy and Richard Whithorne Lovesy. She grew up in Briggsville on land that she returned to later in her life. She had one sister, Louise Claire, who died as a young woman. Growing up during the Depression, life was hard but the lessons of hard work, charity and frugality, as well as unconditional love were imparted. She is survived by her loving husband, Carol “Pate”; children, George R. (Linda Allen) of Portage, Julie (Scott) Halvorsen of Aiken,SC, and Lisa (Holly Houston) of Fort Atkinson; grandchildren, Zane Patefield Halvorsen (Robyn Collignon) of Oakland, CA and Katelin Patefield (Dr. Daniel) Villiers of Aiken, SC; and great-grandchildren, Bryn Patricia Reade Villiers and Wilder Nicholas Halvorsen. She is also survived by her English cousins, Peter and Susan Cox, Barry and Paula Cox, Philip Cox (and Marion Marrs), Christopher Palmer, Philip Palmer, Debbie (Mark) Harris and Nikki (Steven) Beamish. She was preceded in death by her parents, sister, and cousins Helen and Eva Lovesy. Pat did not wish to have a funeral but instead wanted her family to host a cocktail party for family and friends. Her ashes will be spread over two of her most favorite places in the world. Memorials may be made to the Humane Society of Jefferson County (WI). The Pflanz Mantey Mendrala Funeral Home in Portage is assisting the family. Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glint on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you wake in the morning hush, I am the swift, uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circling flight. I am the soft starlight at night. Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep. Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there, I did not die. Mary Frye (1932) |